A source or mechanism with potential to cause physical, psychological, social, financial or legal harm.
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Risk profile and risk tolerance
A risk profile describes possible harms, causes, likelihood, severity, uncertainty and controls; risk tolerance describes the kind and level of residual risk a person is willing to accept.
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In brief
Risk assessment describes exposure; risk tolerance is a personal decision about what remains.
These concepts support structured decisions rather than a promise of safety. People can understand the same evidence and choose different boundaries, while consent and law still limit available choices. Tolerance can change with health, mood, experience, environment or consequences, and no participant may impose their own tolerance on another.
A judgement combining possible consequence, likelihood, exposure and uncertainty.
A measure intended to prevent harm, detect change, limit severity or improve response.
Risk remaining after controls, which should be communicated rather than described as zero.
Build the profile
Define the actual activity, people, equipment, environment and duration. Identify credible failure modes, who could be affected, early signs, severity, uncertainty and dependencies such as a single key or network connection.
Use mechanism-specific evidence where available. Broad labels and anecdotes can miss rare but severe outcomes or overstate reassurance from past success.
Select and test controls
Prefer controls that remove or reduce a hazard before relying only on attention or emergency response. Check equipment, communication, stop access, hygiene, sobriety, positioning and available help as relevant.
Controls can fail together: panic may impair communication, load may jam a release and noise may hide a signal. Test realistic failures without creating the harm being planned against.
Tolerance and consent
Each affected adult decides whether the explained residual risk fits their boundaries. A lower tolerance is not ignorance or weakness, and a higher tolerance is not proof of expertise.
Reassess when a variable changes. Consent to one configuration, consequence or partner does not automatically transfer to another.
Review after outcomes
Near misses, unexpected marks, distress, equipment faults and communication failures provide information even without serious injury. Review without blame and change the plan where evidence warrants it.
Seek healthcare promptly for concerning symptoms and disclose relevant mechanism. Community experience cannot replace clinical assessment or jurisdiction-specific legal advice.
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What the umbrella may include
- Separating likelihood from severity for a rare serious harm.
- Recognising that one inaccessible release is a single point of failure.
- Declining residual risk after hearing the safeguards.
- Reassessing after medication or mobility changes.
- Treating a near miss as evidence rather than success.
Reviewed 30 August 2026
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