36 completed guides

Evidence first. Practical understanding next.

Each guide states its evidence limits, review date and UK context.

What sexuality includes

What sexuality includes explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Attraction, fantasy, arousal, behaviour and identity

Attraction, fantasy, arousal, behaviour and identity explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Desire and arousal without myths

Desire and arousal without myths explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Consent, capacity and coercion

Consent, capacity and coercion explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Healthy relationships and consensual power

Healthy relationships and consensual power explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Responding to a boundary crossing

Responding to a boundary crossing explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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A map of adult relationship structures

A map of adult relationship structures explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Agreements, rules and boundaries

Agreements, rules and boundaries explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Navigating different levels of desire

Navigating different levels of desire explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Understanding sexual response

Understanding sexual response explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Sexual pain and when to seek help

Sexual pain and when to seek help explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Sexuality across bodies and life stages

Sexuality across bodies and life stages explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Sexual health and STI prevention

Sexual health and STI prevention explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Choosing barriers and lubricants

Choosing barriers and lubricants explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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When to seek medical help

When to seek medical help explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Sexual orientation, gender and kink identity

Sexual orientation, gender and kink identity explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Attraction and identity without assumptions

Attraction and identity without assumptions explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Inclusive language in practice

Inclusive language in practice explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Kink, paraphilia and paraphilic disorder

Kink, paraphilia and paraphilic disorder explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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ICD, DSM and community language

ICD, DSM and community language explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Finding qualified, affirming support

Finding qualified, affirming support explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Sex, kink and law across the UK

Sex, kink and law across the UK explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Intimate images and digital consent

Intimate images and digital consent explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Legal information versus legal advice

Legal information versus legal advice explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Digital consent and intimate images

Digital consent and intimate images explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Pornography and media literacy

Pornography and media literacy explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Privacy for connected sexual products

Privacy for connected sexual products explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Entering kink communities thoughtfully

Entering kink communities thoughtfully explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Event etiquette and house rules

Event etiquette and house rules explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Risk language without false guarantees

Risk language without false guarantees explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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What body-safe can and cannot mean

What body-safe can and cannot mean explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Cleaning, compatibility and cross-contamination

Cleaning, compatibility and cross-contamination explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Evaluating product safety claims

Evaluating product safety claims explained through definitions, evidence, practical choices, limitations and relevant UK context.

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Start with comfort, not bravado

A first-kit decision guide focused on fit, simple release, accessibility and avoiding unnecessary complexity.

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Know what touches your skin

How leather, silicone, latex, PVC, metals and textiles differ in allergy, porosity, compatibility and care.

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Care for equipment properly

Cleaning, drying, storage, inspection, recalls and retirement decisions for adult products.

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