Agreement to identified activity rather than general access to a person's body.
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Specific and conditional consent
Agreement limited to particular people, activities, conditions, timing or safeguards. Activity outside the agreed scope has not been authorised.
Consent & relationships
In brief
Permission has edges: person, act, context and conditions.
Consent answers a specific proposal, not an entire category of access. A person can agree only on stated conditions—such as privacy, barrier use, no recording or a defined activity—and can refuse everything else. Whether breach of a condition meets a particular criminal offence is a separate legal question.
Agreement that depends on a stated condition remaining true.
Something desired but not necessarily made a condition of agreement; clear discussion reduces ambiguity.
A broad label that cannot remove the person's continuing legal and ethical right to choose.
Scope matters
Consent to one person, act, body area, intensity or occasion does not imply consent to another. Consent to be present, watch, flirt, undress or discuss a fantasy is not automatically consent to sexual activity.
Recording, sharing an image and the underlying activity are separate decisions. Privacy expectations should be explicit before any device is used.
Conditions and safeguards
An adult may make agreement dependent on barrier use, contraception, location, sobriety, a check-in or another condition. If the condition cannot be met, pause and seek a new freely made decision rather than silently substituting.
A condition should be understood by everyone it binds. Ambiguity is a reason to clarify, not to choose the broadest interpretation.
Legal context
CPS guidance recognises conditional-consent cases in applying section 74 in England and Wales, but warns that the condition and all context must be considered. Different deceptions and breaches do not all have identical legal consequences.
Scotland and Northern Ireland have separate sexual-offence law. Individual cases require specialist legal assessment rather than conclusions drawn from a glossary example.
Good communication
Ask what is included, excluded and subject to change. Repeat back important conditions and check again when circumstances shift.
Consent remains withdrawable even when every original condition is met. Fulfilling a condition is necessary to stay within scope, not a guarantee that consent continues.
Non-graphic examples
What the umbrella may include
- Agreeing to one activity but not another.
- Consenting only if an agreed barrier remains in use.
- Allowing an interaction but declining all recording.
- Agreeing with one person without consenting to anyone else joining.
- Pausing when a planned privacy condition can no longer be met.
Reviewed 30 August 2026
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